Before my Dad left he always took me swimming and after being in the pool for a bit he would go back to the lockers to use the bathroom. Never caught him at it, but once I understood what does sometimes happen. I caught plenty of men having oral or anal.
I started in bathrooms like this in my early life I was a homosexual. I found acceptance there. I later became Bi but having men be gentle with me and talking about their own lives and discoveries starting out, helped me.
also cannot afford the out of print book on Abe Books for 340.00! But w2ould like to read and olde copy..any body have one to lend me..promise will be returning it after....just feel for these poor men. Becasue there but for the grace of God.....I love and loved toilet sex and crusing.